Website Spotlight: Affair Recovery

Infidelity and other marital problems aren't easy to talk about, but they are something many couples experience. For those who find themselves in the midst of marital struggles regarding infidelity, betrayal or sexual addiction, there's a web-based, confidential curriculum at Affair Recovery. During beta testing, over 7,000 men and women have visited the website and utilized the free Affair Analyzer, which helps give them a start on the path toward healing.

Some of the key reasons why couples and individuals fail to get on the path to recovery include:
· Shame and fear of opening up to anyone about their experiences.
· One-on-one therapy is expensive.
· The national attitude is much more accepting of divorce than reconciliation after infidelity, often viewing the latter as a sign of weakness.
· Traditional therapy is often inaccessible. It takes place between 9 a.m. and 5 p.m. when couples may not be able to leave work or they have to schedule a babysitter, which is an added expense.
· A continued sense of isolation and shame because when couples only go to a counselor’s office, they are often unable to find a safe way to speak about their situation with others that have gone through the experience.
· Finding a therapist that fits with the couple can be tough. Statistics indicate many couples see three or more therapists, which can be expensive, discouraging, and time-consuming.
· Deception can create confusion, lack of self-esteem, blame and in some cases, either a lack of action by the couple or the urgent leap to divorce.

Using the online website helps alleviate some of these problems, including inconvenience, expense, and having to open up to a stranger. If you or someone you know is experiencing marital infidelity, this can be a good resource to pass on.