Parenting Pointers: The Good Mother Myth

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The Good Mother Myth is a refreshing book that I think many mothers need to read. There seems to be such implicit competition between mothers, with many trying to be a supermom - homemade treats for birthdays, successful careers, well-behaved children, great school art projects. But what many mothers don't realize is that each mother has her strengths, and just because you can't make a Pinterest-worthy cake doesn't mean that your kids aren't just as happy as others.

This series of contributions collected and edited by Avital N. Nathman (@TheMamaFesto) helps bring us back to reality. The contributors are real, honest women who are up front about their challenges and realistic about what's possible. It's a great book to read if you're doubting your own abilities as a mother.

Even if you don't read it, keep in mind these two very wise pieces of advice that I've heard from several mothers and try to incorporate as much as possible:
Lower the bar. If you're holding yourself up to impossible standards, stop. Your kids will be happier, you and your spouse will be happier, if you have realistic standards for yourself and others, and if you realize that we're all doing the best we can.
Remember it's all a phase. If you're being challenged by something in particular (babies not sleeping through the night, tantrums, potty-training, etc) this will help you remember that you won't be stuck in it forever. If you're in a good moment right now, it will help you remember to cherish it.