Post by Clark Burbidge, author of Giants
in the Land Trilogy, giantsinthelandbook.com
A lesson often overlooked in the growth of a child is the need to
volunteer to help others or give back to the community. While sharing is
usually stressed at school and in the home, we can overlook talking about
the value of a child sharing their time and contributing work to make
something or someone’s life better. This can teach a child to pay
closer attention to the world around them and consider others more deeply.
It can also help them learn to work in groups and follow rules given to
complete a task. Most of all it teaches a child the value of placing
others’ needs before their own.
Here are a few tips to help inspire your child to volunteer and become a
role-model in your community:
1) Give them choices
Allowing your child to choose the type of service helps them take title
and responsibility for their decisions and follow through. There are
opportunities at food banks, animal shelters, schools and with neighbors.
Having choices, and counselling with them as they make the final decision
will empower your child from the very start.
2) Start out with something fun
Make sure that the opportunities you pick have an element of fun, so
that your child can learn to love serving others and work up to the more
difficult jobs. Working at an animal shelter by playing with the pets or
taking the animals for a walk or helping an elderly neighbor with simple
chores are examples of starting with something manageable and
fun.
3) Serve side-by-side
Have you ever noticed it’s easier to get your child to do
something if you offer to work together? Make sure that they’re not
doing this alone. Support your child by volunteering with them and doing
the same work that they do. A friendly presence and positive words will
help the first few times volunteering fly by for your child. Long after
they have forgotten the nature of the service they will remember that you
did it with them. If you can’t volunteer with them, have your child
volunteer with a friend. Having a parent or friend as a role model for
their actions will inspire your child to work harder and continue to
return.
4) Emphasize the benefits
Talk about the benefits of volunteering. Make sure that your child knows
why they’re doing what they’re doing and the difference it will
make for those served. Show them who their work is helping and talk about
what their life would be like without the volunteer work. Help them to
understand the difference between self-benefits which will surely be
present and the benefits that others receive from the service. This
perspective will bring a better understanding of compassion in a world that
sometimes only talks about passion. Compassion is a much more powerful and
uplifting characteristic and worthy of effort to develop.
About the AuthorClark Burbidge received an MBA degree from
the University of Southern California and a BS degree in finance from the
University of Utah. His career spans 34 years in banking, project finance,
investment banking, and more recently as a Chief Financial Officer. He has
been actively involved in community and church service, including lay youth
and adult ministry, for over 38 years. His first book, Life on the
Narrow Path: A Mountain Biker’s Guide to Spiritual Growth in Troubled
Times was released nationally in 2011. His works A Piece of Silver:
A Story of Christ (2012) and the Giants in the Land (2012 &
2013) Young Adult Fiction trilogy Books One and Two have been recognized
with several international awards including Mom’s Choice Awards Gold
Medals as the top books in the world in their categories. Learn more
about Clark at his websites: www.giantsinthelandbook.com and
www.apieceofsilver.com.
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