Over
the years, one of the main problems faced by people is the pursuit of
happiness. We search for happiness anywhere and everywhere without knowing the
fact that the so called key of happiness is with us, within. You need not
search for happiness because happiness is around us, omnipresent. And your
happiness is not in the hands of others, but in yours. Haven’t we come across a
situation where we start asking ourselves “why did I let that person to control
my happiness”? This thinking is so true
because in reality, no one should control your happiness, but you.
In
this world of ubiquitous connectivity, people come and go in our lives.
Shakespeare once said “All the world's a stage, and all the men and women
merely players; they have their exits and entrances”. The saying is so true in our
lives. We make friends in life and especially in this era of Facebook and
Twitter where the scope of connectivity is more. The number of our friends increases
day by day. But who stays with us depends on the trust and mutual understanding
by the two. But, then yet there are some people who inspire you to live a good
life and surround happiness around you. Happiness is tantamount to positivity.
Accept positive energy around you and have acquaintance with people who throw
positive vibe towards you .Apart from thinking about things which took you to
bad results, try to think positively that whatever happened was for good and
move life ahead. Always keep one thing in mind that, you are the one who should
decide if your day is going to be good or bad. Do not give the anchor of your
life to anyone else. Do not sacrifice your happiness nor depend on anyone else
for your happiness.
There
are instances that you will meet negative people in your life. One should know
that fact that negative people and their negative thoughts block you mentally and
will only bring negativity into your life. Chuck them out of your life and
enmesh yourself with positive people who give importance of sharing and living
a happy life. Staying positive isn’t that easy and need a bit of effort. With
every negative, there is always a positive, and thinking about that will lead you
on the success path in which you can make progress toward
happiness. Try to do something which you love the most. You need not care what
others say, but if you feel that what you doing is right, do it. Keeping
yourself happy helps you to remain healthy. An unhappy person’s mind is always
under pressure and he can never achieve success in his life. Why because, the
negativity of thoughts do not pave way for happiness in him. When you become
more concerned about other people’s words and deeds, you do not get time to get
concerned about you, which will make you sick physically and mentally. When you stay happy, your world changes and
you are motivated to do good things in life. You can find motivation in your
emotional and spiritual life too. The self within you is free from negative
energy and empowered. When people with positive energy enslave you, you can
realize a new life in your spirit and an enlightened spirit.
Life
is never a bed of roses. Ups and downs come in varied forms and never try to
sit and moan on your downs. Sitting idle and just ruminating things is never
going to lead you to happiness. Throw off the barricade and live happily and
show to the world that you are an invincible and an indomitable person. Prove
them you are the owner of your happiness and not them. So stay healthy, happy
and lead a wonderful life ahead. Keep the Key to Your Happiness in Your Own
Hand.
Author Bio: I am
Dora Houston,
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