Setting goals as
a family opens up several learning opportunities as parents and children learn
and accomplish together. Working together toward a common goal can open the
discussion about the importance of serving others, being a team player, saving
money, and being responsible citizens. Your family will grow closer as you
develop important values together that will stay with you and your children
throughout your lives.
Here are six
family goals you can set with your children.
1. Save Money for a Shared Expense
If your children
express a desire to take a vacation, say to Disneyland, invite them to have a
conversation about how the family can work together to accomplish that goal.
Talk about ways you can save extra money to afford the trip, and ways the children can get involved to develop
financial literacy early in life. This can be any expense all members of the
family desire, not just a trip. Maybe a basketball hoop, video game console, or
new TV would be appropriate for your family.
2. Plan One Service Project You Can Do
Together
Teach your
children the importance of service by choosing a service project to do
together. Lifelong happiness can be found in charitable acts, so involving your
children at a young age to prioritize service is a very important lesson. If
you have a friend or neighbor in need of lawn work, perhaps your family could
dedicate a Saturday to helping them out. You could also use this link to find local service projects near you
in need of volunteers.
3. Set a Goal to Eat Dinner Together
Busy schedules
may interfere with family dinners, but setting a goal together to prioritize
that special time together would be a worthwhile endeavor. Knowing about the details
of each other’s daily lives will strengthen your relationships, so striving to
have that time together, at least a few times a week, would be a great goal to
set together.
4. Evaluate Your Family’s Chores and
Allowances
Having regular
discussions about family responsibilities can help maintain positive attitudes
about chores and help children maintain perspective. Attaching specific,
agreed-upon rewards for various chores can help children learn the importance
of working hard and earning money. Set time aside to ask your kids for input
about their jobs, and make reasonable adjustments if necessary.
5. Spend Less Time on Screens
Most families
would agree that screens often replace quality time or activities, so set goals
together to participate in activities that will force you to put the screens
down. This could include going for an evening walk together, playing a card
game together, or reading a book together. Maybe you could have your children
list activities they like and you could make a “Screen-free Activity Jar” from
which you could draw a random activity.
6. Plan for the Holidays
The holidays tend to sneak up on us and catch
us, and our bank accounts, off guard. With the help of your children, make a
plan in advance of holiday activities they would like to do, and save for them
ahead of time to avoid unnecessary debt. Perhaps your children want to go
skiing or snowboarding, or host a Christmas party with friends. Maybe you could
do a gift exchange among siblings or plan to make gifts for each other rather
than have everyone buy gifts for everyone else. Teach your kids the importance
of money management and saving, and not to splurge during the holidays.
About
BusyKid
BusyKid is the
first online chore chart where children can earn, save, share, spend and invest
real money wisely. Formerly known as My Job Chart, BusyKid is easy to use,
revolutionary and allows kids to receive a real allowance from their parents
each Friday. No more points or trying to convert imaginary money.
BusyKid is committed to helping children learn the important basic
financial principles they don’t get anywhere else. Designed as a platform that
is easy for parents to implement, BusyKid features pre-loaded chores based on
children’s ages and making chore payment approvals is as simple as answering a
text message. BusyKid is the only online chore/allowance platform that allows
children to earn real allowance and use it immediately to buy gift cards, make
a donation or invest in real stock. For more information, go to www.busykid.com.
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