Most of the time when a marriage is collapsing you can see it coming a mile away. Family members, friends – sometimes even bystanders on the street – can tell something is amiss.
And yet, divorce attorneys and therapists say that often one spouse seems completely blindsided – and flattened – when the end actually comes.
But marriages rarely go from “till death do us part” to “I can’t be in the same room with you” overnight, says Manhattan-based divorce attorney Jacqueline Newman, author of Soon to Be Ex: A Guide to Your Perfect Divorce & Relaunch (www.jacquelinenewman.com).
“There are always red flags,” Newman says. “People just miss them when it’s their own relationship.”
According to the legal site Avvo.com, there are two divorces every minute in the United States. Which means, in the time it will take you to read to this paragraph, at least one couple will call it quits. If you have a nagging feeling you might be next, Newman advises watching for these common signs that heartache could be heading your way.
You don’t want to be overly suspicious, but you should trust your instincts, Newman says.
“It’s common to experience a sense of denial that this is happening to you,” she says. “But when you’re facing this situation, it’s important to stay wise, alert and rational.”
About Jacqueline Newman
Jacqueline Newman, author of Soon to Be Ex: A Guide to Your Perfect Divorce & Relaunch (www.Jacquelinenewman.com), is the managing partner of Berkman Bottger Newman & Rodd, LLP, a New York divorce law firm. She has appeared as an expert commentator on television and radio shows and has been quoted in numerous publications, including Crain’s New York Business, U.S. News and World Report, Business Insider, Time.com, USA Today, Yahoo Parenting, Woman’s Day, Glamour Magazine, the New York Post, Reuters.com, CNBC.com and The Huffington Post.
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Wednesday, August 23, 2017
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