Book Nook: The Value of a Single Woman

As a child, celebrity fitness expert, actor, author and motivational speaker Joseph Brooks endured bullying, sexual and physical abuse by the gangs that ruled his San Antonio neighborhood, and the loss of both parents by the time he reached 18. In his book The Value of a Single Woman and in his presentations, Brooks chronicles not only how he achieved his transformation but also offers insights to help others embark on their own journeys of self-care and wellness.   
I had a chance to interview him to learn more.

Why did you decide to write this book?

I decided to write this book so that my daughters and other women young and mature would have a guidebook to live by. A set of principles that established their significance, self-worth and value.

How can single women make sure they are staying safe?

Stay aware of everyone and everything, as a self-defense instructor for females, I teach women to keep their mental guard up at all times always looking for the subtle pink flags that come before the red flags. i.e. voice inflection, breathing patterns, certain questions. 

 Every battle is won before it is ever fought. Not my quote but it is true, If a female is aware, it may protect her emotionally, spiritually and physically.

What are some tips you can share for single women who are trying to become financially successful?

I have always believed that God gave women a special gift of discernment and sensitivity, I encourage women to use those gifts and Jump! My dear friend did and now we are going to see Queen perform in her Castle here in ITALY.

She Jumped with no parachute, not certain where she would land only that she would. 

1. Do what you can't stop thinking about! 
2. Ask yourself, If money were no object what would I do? That's your purpose, no matter how crazy it sounds to others, as long as its legal and doesn't hurt you do it!
3. Never second guess yourself!
4. Never have a Plan B

What tips to single women need to know when it comes to dating and relationships?

When it comes to dating and relationships.

1. Never Compromise.
2. Don't become his mother.
3. Command respect.
4. Never offer a benefits package. (No friends w/benefits.)
5. Don't date a man you wouldn't marry.
6. Don't overlook the NERDS!!!! The ROCK is a self proclaimed nerd, not bad
7. Make sure he loves God more than you, hat way he will honor you as a Kings daughter and treat you as such.

Author, actor, fitness expert and speaker Joseph Brooks has been helping individuals transform their lives physically, spiritually and mentally for over 30 years.

A regular fitness expert on KSAT-12's top variety show SA Live, Brooks has helped thousands by coming into their homes via TV. He is also listed on IMDb at: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm10956746/.

He has been a featured guest on national and local podcast such as Erica Vargas's "In Search of good Men,” Janie Terrazas's "Rise above TV,” Heather Whitestones "Whitestone Marketing” and Our Lady of the Lake Universities "Book Nook.” He is also cast to play the role of "Doc” Brown, a major character in Director/Choreographer Joemer Dulatres Grandmaster movie due for release in 2020.

Brooks and his wife, Adriana, have been married 30 years and have raised five children, which Brooks calls his "greatest success.”

To learn more about Brooks' story and his motivational speaking, please visit the following: www.gotothenextlevel.com; www.youtube.com/; or www.facebook.com.