HealthyMinds Innovations has put together some well-being tips and resources for you to navigate back-to-school in the time of COVID-19.
What can parents do to combat this overwhelming stress? Here are some real, actionable tips and tools to support your (and ultimately, your child’s) well-being during this time:
- Remember, we are resilient (both kids and adults): Broadly, the concept of “resilience” refers to the ability to adapt successfully to adversity, stress, and trauma. As humans, we all have this skill: we are more than just one event, or one circumstance. We are able to look back on our lives and realize in the rear-view that our experiences have made us stronger, taught us things, or led us on a new path. The key is to find ways to tap into this feeling in the present. Here is a really relevant meditation that you can do right now, to strengthen this skill.
- From the meditation: “A lot of suffering is actually our resistance to things we can’t control. When we let go of resistance, this opens up space for resilience.” Remember, this applies to kids too – they are resilient – they will make it through this moment in time.
- Foster self-awareness and take control of your emotions: Things can build up if you are in a constant state of stress, and it’s easy to fall into a cycle of worry and rumination until you are overwhelmed. This guided practice can support emotional regulation by training your mind to tune into the moment and how you feel – before you “lose it.”
- From the meditation: “[It’s] kind of like looking outside to check the weather. We look to see if we’ve got clear skies or if a storm is coming. But here, it’s the weather of the mind.”
- Stay motivated by reconnecting with your core values: When the world feels like it’s in chaos, it can be challenging to stay connected to your personal values and purpose. It’s easy for you to lose your focus and for your feelings of chaos to spill over to your school-age child. Kids can pick up on stress; getting back in touch with your guiding principles can help ground you before this happens. This meditation is specifically about reconnecting to your values during the challenges of Covid-19.
- Still feeling out of control? Do something:
- These resources from the CDC provide checklists for parents of school-aged kids for both virtual and in-person instruction this fall.
- Download the free HealthyMinds meditation app to help guide you through your day.
- You can also talk to your child’s teacher or counselor if you’re needing details – but remember, they’re also managing the stress of this moment.
- Or make a plan now for a reward at the end of the first month of this experiment – something for the whole family to look forward to like a special camping trip, a new board game or an upcoming movie night. Take action – for the better.
All of these practices and tips tie back to one main concept – this is a moment in time, and we will get past it. You can develop your inner strength to deal with challenges and setbacks, and even find inspiration to energize yourself and your kids during this time. You are not at the whim of your experiences, but on top of them. A few minutes of meditation a day – even one minute – can build up these skills and make a real difference in your well-being.
Remember, you (and your kids) are doing the best you can during an unprecedented moment in time. Check in on your emotions and theirs. Talk regularly about how things are going and adjust.
The full tips and well-being guide can be read HERE
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