The holiday season may look very different from the one to which you have become accustomed, but in some ways it can be even better. You won’t be shuffling from one holiday party to another, or gathering as communities to perform or listen to festive tunes, but you also won’t have to endure endless waits on highways or tarmacs either. Children and Screens: Institute of Digital Media and Child Development has cooked up some amazing everyday ideas to add magic, fun and wonder to make your staycation the best it can be and your familiar and comforting traditions as festive as ever! GIVE YOURSELVES A BREAK! It is beneficial for the whole family to be intentional about taking time off during the holidays. While it is tempting to work during this period, as a parent, you need to allow yourself adequate time and space to relax, spend some time in nature, get exercise, and take a mental health break. As they say before taking off on an airplane, take care of yourself first and you will be better equipped to take care of your child. Give yourself permission to delegate some responsibilities so that you have the energy to support family bonding. Be a great role model. Experts advise that when you are with your children, it is especially important to be off of your devices and to avoid technoference; the best gift you can give your family is your undivided attention and love. MAKE A WISH(LIST) Each member of your family has different hopes and goals for this season. It’s important for children and teens to consider what would make them happy and to have the opportunity to express themselves. Goal-setting supports discipline, responsibility, and confidence; in the midst of a quarantined winter break, working toward goals will help the whole family enjoy the break in healthy and entertaining ways. Conduct a family “survey” to find out what each person would like to achieve or experience during this time and, when they look back on this year, what they would like to remember. Some members of your family will know exactly what they would like to do, whether it is learning how to play a new instrument, master calligraphy, read a biography, -- or just relaxing. For other members of your family, you may need to present a few options for activities and goals based on their interests. Once you understand what they would like to accomplish and the memories they wish to cherish, you can support their interests with your time, resources, and gifts. PREPARE TO BE AMAZED To make the most of family time, plan ahead and schedule times for family activities each day that don’t revolve around mealtime. Plan a movie night, game night, or puzzle night. Have a cookie decorating party, a dance party around the tree, or a fashion show. Build a gingerbread house or a sugar cube igloo as a family. Paint nesting Matryoshka dolls. Put on a family concert with your favorite band or holiday music. Make new ornaments for the tree or a new paper garland to hang above the door. Your plans don’t have to be fancy, as long as you are spending time together. A BALANCING ACT Although screens are an attractive way to spend hours relaxing during the holidays, it is important to set limits and strike a balance between “personal growth” screen time, such as researching a topic, watching a documentary or educational program, or socializing and connecting -- and “entertainment” screen time. Every minute doesn’t have to be educational, but too much time watching YouTube videos or scrolling through TikTok isn’t great, either. A research study in 2019 of over 6500 adolescents showed that more than three hours a day on social media resulted in higher levels of anxiety and depression. Furthermore, increased screen usage can lead to decreased sleep duration and sleep problems, which has been associated with problem behaviors. Parents can encourage children by deliberately planning plenty of screen-free times into your family routine (see specific recommendations from experts here!). |
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