What If You Meet a Celebrity?

 

“Flirting with Fame” author and Hollywood publicist Dan Harary has worked with countless celebrities during his career. During that time, he has had his fair share of celebrity encounters. From that time, he has learned a few things about interacting with celebrities and Hollywood stars. Now, he is sharing his tips and tricks with you in the event you cross paths with the rich and famous.

Do:

1. Gauge the situation…is the celebrity busy with a crying baby or does he/she look like they don’t want to be disturbed?  Respect their privacy and only approach them if your gut says “now might be a good time”
2. If a celebrity is older than you and you feel it would be OK to meet them, use Mr. or Ms. for someone older than you, and use their first name for someone younger than you. 
3. If a celebrity is with other people who appear as though they might be their manager or agent or bodyguard, it would be best to approach THAT person first, to ask THEM if it might be OK for you to speak to the celebrity directly.
4. Think of something clever to say! Most celebs hear “I love you so much” or “I love your new movie or TV show”...try to say something interesting to them like, “Hi NAME! My father also grew up in your same hometown!” or “Hi NAME! I met my wife/husband during your concert in NAME of CITY in WHAT YEAR”?
5. Ask for permission if you want to take their photo. If they say no, respect their decision.

Don’t:

1. Assume the celebrity wants to pose for a photo with you! Try to have a small chat first to break the ice, before you ask for permission to click a photo.
2. Thrust a pen and a piece of paper into a celebrity’s hand and say, “I need your autograph!” Imagine if the situation was reversed, how would YOU like to be annoyed that way?
3. Cut in front of other people who are waiting to meet the celebrity who are standing in front of you, closer to the famous person. Wait for your turn, patiently.
4. Ask them anything controversial or embarrassing about their past - no mention of politics or sex or drug scandals, etc. Make polite small talk that includes the “moment” like, “aren’t the pancakes in this restaurant terrific?”
5.  Hug or put your arm around the celebrity right away. Start off with a gentle handshake and if the celeb seems to be highly normal and approachable, ask them if it would be OK if you gave them a hug or a kiss on the cheek.