Parenting Pointers - Discussing Current Events with Kids

 With headlines full of war, division, and uncertainty, many parents are struggling to explain what’s happening to their children in a way that’s honest yet hopeful. Heather Wilson, founder of GiveSendGo, offers practical advice for having age-appropriate, values-based conversations that foster emotional security, faith, and resilience.

As a mom of six, wife, and entrepreneur, Heather brings a deeply personal and practical perspective. She’s passionate about helping families thrive—not just financially, but emotionally and spiritually.

I had a chance to interview her about ways to discuss current events with kids in a truthful, positive way.

1. Why is it important to be conscious about how we discuss current issues with children?
Children are always listening—even when we think they aren’t. The way we frame current issues helps shape not only their understanding of the world but also their sense of safety, empathy, and resilience. Being conscious about these conversations allows us to meet our kids at their developmental level, giving them truth without unnecessary fear, and equipping them with hope rather than helplessness. Our tone and framing matter because we are helping them interpret a complex world through a lens of faith, compassion, and critical thinking.

2. How can parents and caregivers discuss potentially scary or intense topics in ways that are calming and empowering?
Start by listening more than talking. Ask what they’ve heard, what they’re feeling, and what questions they have. Then answer simply, truthfully, and age-appropriately—without overwhelming details. It’s okay to say “I don’t know, but we can pray, learn, or help together.” Children feel empowered when they know they’re not alone, and when they’re reminded that even in hard times, we can be kind, brave, and faithful. Centering the conversation around what we can do, pray, give, serve—helps move their focus from fear to action.

3. How can discussions about news and current events spur families to be involved and engaged in their community?
Talking about the world creates opportunities to ask, “How can we help?” Whether it’s writing cards to first responders, donating to a cause, or showing up for a neighbor in need, these moments invite families to live out their values. When children see their parents responding with generosity and service, it reinforces the idea that we’re not powerless in the face of problems—we’re part of the solution. Conversations about current events become springboards into purposeful action.

4. Why is it good to build this involvement from an early age?
Children who grow up seeing service as a normal part of life are more likely to become compassionate, community-minded adults. Early involvement nurtures empathy and teaches that small acts of kindness matter. It also helps kids develop confidence in their ability to make a difference. When we invite our children to serve with us, whether it’s praying for others, helping with a fundraiser, or delivering groceries to someone in need, we’re planting seeds of hope, leadership, and purpose that can grow for a lifetime.