Parenting Pointers: Should You Go Back to School?

For the last decade or so, it seems your life has been a blur of dance recitals, football practices, and carpools with the neighborhood kids. You opted to stay at home for the first few years of motherhood to get more time with your kiddos. But now they're at a point where their schedules are full between extra-curricular activities and school and you find yourself with a little free time.

As you start entertaining ways to fill your time, you entertain the idea of going back to school. Whether pursuing a bachelors, masters or simply looking to take a couple of classes in a field of interest, there's no denying that moms are hitting the books more and more. With the number of nontraditional students only growing—a story that ran in the Harvard Magazine last year cited that more than two-fifths of students fit the title—it’s obvious that moms make up some of that demographic.

But is going back to school the best decision for you and your family? Below are some things to consider before making that decision.

Assess Your Financial Situation

For some moms, going back to school is simply a step they must take before re-immersing themselves in the working world, and, generally, more education means a higher salary. Although this isn't a guarantee, the expense doled out to go back is more of an investment in your family's financial future—and that's never a bad idea.

However, moms must be honest with themselves about their financial situations. With the constantly rising cost of living coupled with their children's impending college tuition and fees, some just can't afford the expense. If that sounds like your situation, investigate options such as grants and scholarships, as well as alternatives such as online education. There is a wealth of information available on the subject—you just have to want to find it.

Is Your Partner's Job Secure?

Similar to the previous section, it's important to consider whether or not your partner's job is secure. For the past few years, your significant other has been bringing home the bacon, and before you bring on additional debt and expenses it's important to know if you all will be able to afford it for the foreseeable future. If the job security that was there is no longer, there's a real possibility that you may have to go back to the office rather than the classroom, so it's a smart idea to know that before making any decisions.

Do You Feel Like Something's Missing?

If finances are in order and you still aren't sure, you should ask yourself if you feel like something's missing. If going back to school to pursue your passion will make you happier and more fulfilled, go for it. Now, this is certainly not meant to discount the happiness and joy you get from your family—but developing as an individual is an important part of life. Ensuring you are happy and content will only make you a better mom, as you will be living to your full potential—plus it will set the example for your children that chasing their dreams and following their hearts is a smart way to live.

Maria Rainier is a freelance higher education blogger who loves to talk about the universal appeal of online education. She firmly believes that online master’s degrees and bachelor’s degrees will become the norm for 21^st century higher learning. Leave her some comments below!