Parenting Pointers: Starting A New Relationship - How to Make Sure It Lasts

The beginning is always exciting. There are plenty of emotions involved when starting a new relationship. Excitement and hope that something good may last forever is always a great feeling. However, there is also the chance that things may not work out the way you expect them to. It scares a lot of people when they enter a new relationship.

Not to worry, here are some relationship tips you can follow as you start a new adventure with someone. Who knows this may be your chance to a lifetime of happiness, if you these things right:

First, the foundation should be a strong friendship. Your attitude should be compatible with your partner. It is okay  to be different on some things but you should always have a common ground on some levels. Invest on that. Find the things you enjoy and learn new things together,

Second, spend time with each other. Quality time is important. Try to reach out and make efforts on making a connection. Do not rush this stage, though. Take things slow but make sure it is going forward. Spend time on trying to find out whether or not the person is worth pushing the relationship through. Think things over.

Try to be involved with each other. When you have passed the stage of getting to know, it is a lot easier to be more comfortable with each other. Getting involved with each other’s business should be done gradually. Start by learning how to support your partner. Do not wait long enough to do this. It is important to begin a deep relationship by making sure that there is understanding, help, support, and acceptance. Get to know the family and friends of the person you are with. Make an effort to be close to the people your partner love.

Here are some things that you should not do when you are in a new relationship:

Do not forget about boundaries. Do not do what married couples do. It is only the beginning of a relationship. Let time do its job. Respect the privacy of your partner. Avoid checking private stuff of your partner. Do not keep on checking them. It is a sign of distrust and insecurity. Learn to give them enough space and build the trust you need to have on your partner.

Do not forget about your own boundaries. Do not compromise your beliefs and ideals just to conform to your partner’s. It is okay to argue. Just make sure that it is done in a healthy manner.  In line with this, do not be demanding. Avoid putting pressure and forcing your partner to do things that you want. It is disrespectful.

Do not lie. You will not be comfortable with someone who lies, so why lie? Always do what is right. Show them who you are, no pretenses. If they like you for who you are, then only then are they worth staying with. Avoid hiding stuff from the person love so that there will not be any complications in the future.